8 September 2009
Dare to Take Risks
Posted by Robin Easton under: Hobnobbin' with Robin .
Four Portals to Awareness:
This is part four of a four part series titled Four Portals to Awareness. Last week we explored the connection between emotions and soul. This week we will encourage each other to take risks.
Part Four: Dare to Take Risks:
“Dare to take immense risks. Stretch your thoughts, feelings and experiences beyond that which you know. Reach out, blindly if you must, over inconceivable chasms to touch the Great Unknown. It is here that you will have an intimate firsthand experience of Life.” © Robin Easton
We are set free when we listen to and act upon our heart impulses. We must be brave in the face of self doubt, fear and rebuttal. To act on the heart’s cry takes us to a place of sheer genius. It allows the Universe to flow through our lives and express itself uniquely and creatively in everything we do. Our time here is but a fleeting burst of starlight. So when we’re called to take risks we must trust that Life knows what it’s doing. We need only get out of our own way. Our souls have a deeper wisdom and purpose than the day-to-day awareness most of us live. When we’ve been out of touch with our souls for a long time our heart impulses can seem appallingly drastic and in harsh contrast to our routine lives. In my American culture heart impulses are often seen as things to be got rid of or somehow “managed” so that we don’t rock the boat and upset the status quo in our marriages, families and culture. Risk taking can often feel selfish, crazy, terrifying and thrilling all at once.
I learned from my father that when these heart impulses or soul hungers go unexplored and unlived some of us become ill or even die (if only in spirit). To be truly free we must listen to our hearts and dare to take risks. We all get heart impulses, whether it’s to quit a job, end a relationship or go back to school. “Daring” doesn’t necessarily mean one goes skydiving. It might mean leaving a job that doesn’t fulfill us, or “speaking up” when we’re terrified to do so. It might mean moving to a new area…just because we want to. Or it could be something as simple as getting a hunch to call an old friend, but not fully knowing why. It might mean daring to say “no”….or “yes”, or daring to cry in public or with family or friends, or daring to sing, daring to tell someone we love them, daring to say “I’m sorry”, daring to reach out to someone we don’t know. Or it could be a desire to sell everything we own and travel the world or go into the wild for years on end.
The type of risks I’m talking about usually aren’t brave stunts. They’re situations in our lives in which we’re being called to act, but we aren’t always sure why or what the outcome might be, or if it’s the right thing to do, or if we can do it, or what others will think, and so on. In these situations we are often being asked to act on faith and without solid knowing. Often we don’t feel the faith at all and must still act. Sometimes we have a heart yearning, but to act on that yearning we feel others will shun us, judge us, or tell us we’re doing something “bad”, drastic or foolish. Our friends or family might say, “That’s not like you!” or “I’ve never seen you behave like this; what’s the matter with you?” So we let the heart impulse slip away and we return to the fold, resigned safely to our familiar box. We don’t want to rock the boat or expose ourselves to the raw forces of the universe. However, for some people “supposed” safety is akin to death. Something in us dies when we don’t act upon our brave heart impulses; they’re that crucial to our development.
To dare is to lose one’s footing momentarily. To not dare is to lose oneself. ~ Soren Kierkegaard
It can be very daunting to step off a precipice into the unknown. So much so that some people go their whole lives hungering, but never leap. We need to honor the fact that it really is a leap and we are acting with great courage when we dare to take risks. One reason we don’t take risks is because they don’t always make sense in the context of our social conditioning. Our heart impulses seem drastic and out of place in relationship to all we’ve known. Other times we fear taking risks because we worry about making mistakes – “what if we’re wrong?” It’s our birthright to take risks and to make mistakes; it’s how we grow and learn. To step out of the box and into the vast unknown is part of our evolutionary process.
I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may learn how to do it. ~ Pablo Picasso
Dare to take incredibly brave and life empowering risks. Dare to make mistakes. They are part of the process of self-discovery. Risk taking is a portal to soul, and our souls have a purpose all their own which is more enormous that we can imagine. Every time we listen to our hearts, take a risk and face fear we discover the power of creation. We expand our “known” world. We become larger, more aware, more flexible, less fearful and more courageous. We rediscover our souls and know what it means to be fully alive.
What heart impulses have you felt? Did you listen to them or not?
Love,
Robin
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Emotions: Portals to Soul – Robin Easton – Naked in Eden
Turn off the Bombardment – Robin Easton – Naked in Eden
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40 Comments so far...
Miguel de Luis Says:
8 September 2009 at 1:08 pm.
One of the most daring things I’ve heard about came from a child I know very well. Just six words: I want to be a saint.
With time, that child grew up to know, there’s nothing as hard
Robin Replies
Dear Miguel, this is SUCH a precious story. So simple and so profound. It’s amazing that two lines can be packed with so much wisdom. Thank you.
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Alexander M Zoltai Says:
8 September 2009 at 1:38 pm.
The biggest risk I’ve ever taken was after I tried to kill myself; the risk was to stay alive…
Robin Replies
Dear Alex, This little comment brought tears to my eyes, NOT because you once tried to kill yourself but because you have the great courage to share this. You have the courage to keep living, and fighting for Life. You have a kind and brave spirit. I am more honored than you know that you shared this here. AND I know my reader friends who come here will also be moved by your courage to be honest and vulnerable. It takes great strength to be vulnerable. Bless you dear friend.
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Lydia Says:
8 September 2009 at 1:59 pm.
I loved this post. Now I will return to the previous three again, as this is a great series. You are such a natural teacher and guide, dear Robin.
My greatest heart impulse was the one to walk over to a stranger in a bar after a night of heavy drinking and ask him to drive me the 15 miles into Salem, Oregon, to the detox center. Remarkably, he said yes and he got me there safely. He bought me a tall beer to drink on the way. It was my last drink.
Robin Replies
Dear Lydia, I am blown away by this story. Wow! It is like Alexander M. Zoltai’s story (see his comment here) in that it is a story of great courage and honesty. Wow, to have you share this story here is a great honor for me. I feel closer to you and see even more why you are so wise and compassionate. What an amazing turning point in your life. This is truly remarkable what you did. And to share it so openly is a gift for those who are seeking courage. Thank you.
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Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills Says:
8 September 2009 at 3:09 pm.
Hi Robin, isn’t it interesting how the concept of risk really depends on our own sense of security or insecurity. When we feel secure within ourselves, we don’t necessarily view the possibility of loss as a threat to that security. On the other hand, when we look to externals like a job, money, or other material items as the source of our security, then anything (including opportunity) that doesn’t protect those assets is an unacceptable risk.
Robin Replies
Dear Jonathan, What a GREAT insight you have added to this post. There were so many ways I could have gone with this post and I had trouble sticking to even this must of it. But I LOVE this idea that ” our concept of risk really depends on our own sense of security or insecurity”. For some reason this brings to mind another thought. I’ve been though SO much in my life that once you’ve been dragged through the trenches, got up, fallen down, got up again, fallen down again, been in great pain and just about everything else a being can experience……and if you’re STILL open to life after all THAT, then you suddenly feel a great freedom, because you realize you have nothing left to lose. You are fearless and Life is your oyster! 
It’s all a piece of cake after that. Things you once thought were dramas and seemed daunting are like chicken feed. You wonder why you ever thought they were a risk. Thank you for inspiring me to see this other part of myself.
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Julie Says:
8 September 2009 at 3:18 pm.
It seems to me that the biggest risks—the ones that make us balk—are the ones in which we are not hearing our soul’s voice as clearly as we could. We feel an impulse, a tug, a nudge, a tiny little “I should” or “I wish…” But when we’re truly hearing our souls speak, there’s no hesitation at all, not a single doubt, no point of questioning. We just blindly and faithfully leap, filled with confidence, certainty, feeling assured deep within that “Yes! this IS it.”
Robin Replies
Dear Julie, Wow, you have added yet another dimension to this whole thing, just as Jonathan – Advance Life Skills did. Now you KNOW I really relate to this whole idea of soul’s voice. I totally agree with you. Man o man, when we hear our soul’s voice there is NO doubt. Because we ARE soul, and when we consciously live from a soul place all things are made clear. We are connected to all that is and we just KNOW. It is so wonderful when we can move through our days listening to and living from our souls. See? This is what I mean about you. You live from this place my dear sister friend and you express it with so much vitality that you allow others to feel it through you, reminding them of who they really are.
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Tara S. Dickherber, M.Ed, CPC Says:
8 September 2009 at 3:25 pm.
WOW! You hit home today Robin. That’s exactly what I have been doing this past month…no this entire summer. Taking risks, it’s been so fabulous and rewarding!
Robin Replies
Dear Tara, What a great thrilling comment. I am sooooooooo happy for you. This is just great news. And I have no idea what risks you’ve taken and don’t need to feel the vivacious energy coming off you from the choices you have made. You are just jumping off the page. I am so glad you had the courage “to leap”, as Julie says in her comment. And that you did leap and have so wonderfully rewarded for your courage. Bless you dear Tara.
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Evita Says:
8 September 2009 at 3:30 pm.
I have never thought of myself as a risk taker in my life, and yet I think I have taken more risks than some people may ever fathom. I guess it all just seems natural to me. This is part of life. This is what lets us connect deeper with ourselves and others.
So yes, I have had many heart impulses and while I cannot say that I have listened to them all. What matters is that I have listened and keep listening to them at an ever increasing pace now. I love having that connection with my soul and it is even more amazing to know that I can trust it. I know it will not lead me astray. It feels really great to know that.
I also know there is nothing like leaping into something with all your heart, despite what your analytical mind may say. It may sound more logical to listen to it, but I find that we always get more satisfaction and less regret by listening to our hearts.
Robin Replies
Dear Evita, What I so strongly relate to here is that you never thought of yourself as a risk taker. I REALLY understand this as it’s been the same for me. It’s like anything less than leaping or heading into my fear just never occurred to me. I refused to be defined by fear. I just move toward whatever sets me free. I HAVE to be free. For me that is what Life is all about. I too get more satisfaction and FAR less regret by listening to my heart impulses. I can easily say that I think with my heart. I made a conscious choice to do so when I was about 26 years old. I may have made more mistakes than most and fallen down more and had a lot more mud on me, but boy I SURE have LIVED. I mean to where I know things with my entire being and not just something I retain with my mind. Living is a total “being” experience for me. And what a life it’s been and continues to be.
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Debora Demaree Says:
8 September 2009 at 3:48 pm.
A friend of mine sent me this link today. I told him hivemind! My facebook status today is “Ready to risk familiarity to embark on the unknown”. It is how I resolve fear, to plunge right into the middle of it.
Robin Replies
Dear Debora, Welcome to Eden. I am honored to see you here. I laughed out loud over this comment because it so exciting. Synchronicity! And I love your line about plunging right into the middle of fear to resolve it. I laughed because this is just SO like me. It felt like I was reading my own thoughts reading your comment. Good for you. What is your name on facebook? It would fun to add you. I’m RobinEaston. Thank you for taking the time to stop in and share.
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Shirley Says:
8 September 2009 at 4:13 pm.
Am I a risk taker? I suppose I am. I don’t see it that way but I think others do. I don’t know how many times I have “You are brave.” comments but it isn’t bravery it’s just me. You don’t know what you can do until you do it. If I don’t do it then no one will.
Robin Replies
Dear Shirley, Maybe you are like Evita (see her comment) and are someone who just never really saw it as risk taking, but as you say, just did what had to be done. I have always seen you as very brave and risk taking. I also see that it is just your natural way of being; it’s just who you are. That being true, it’s all you’ve known and it feels perfectly normal to you. But to more timid souls you are a walking act of bravery and risk taking.
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Jenny Mannion Says:
8 September 2009 at 5:00 pm.
Hi Robin,
I think it is so important to challenge ourselves and listen to our hearts. Not careless mindless risks but following our Divine selves, knowing we are much more capable than we tend to give ourselves credit for! I have set some pretty lofty goals over the last 2 years and did everything go smoothly? Ummmm that would be a “no” BUT I did MOST of them (at some point) and learned a heck of a lot in the process. Life is to be lived and learned from — I feel taking risks is part of that. Wonderful post from the heart as always! Thank you!
love,
Jenny
Robin Replies
Dear Jenny, what a gift to have you here. I am still chuckling over your: “…did everything go smoothly? Ummmm that would be a “no”…” Love you honesty. It going smoothly isn’t the point is it?! It’s, as you say, that you learned a so much in the process. And you DID it. You went for it and will have no regrets. I also love your insight into the fact that we are capable of MUCH more than we often know. That is the whole point of healthy risk taking, we find out what we’re made of, what we are capable of and we grow and toughen up and expand our sense of self. Yes, my dear friend life IS to be live and learned from. It’s why we are. Thank you for your generous heart and kind words. Love, Robin
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Zeenat{Positive Provocations} Says:
8 September 2009 at 7:23 pm.
Hi Robin,
Your posts are always amazing. And in every line there is so much wisdom….its such a beautiful learning experience to read your words.
As for taking risks…I used to be a “stay in your safe zone” kind of girl. I mean i did try new things, but i never thought they were risky, so probably what my logical mind thought safe i did..and i kept telling myself i was very adventurous
Its only after i met my husband, that my world opened up…and he taught me the beauty in taking risks and how it can make you mentally strong. He made me tap into those parts of my psyche that i never knew existed. Today i can safely say, i enjoy taking risks and i love the lessons these risks teach me.
Your post today reminded me of the time my hubby proposed to me….it took me 2 years to say yes!!! Imagine how apprehensive i used to be….;) To me even saying yes at that time was a huge risk. But the first of many beautiful risks
Thank you for this gentle reminder.
Lots of love
Zeenat.
Robin Replies
Dear Zeenat, It’s always good to see you. Thank you for your generous words. I am honored. I love what you wrote about meeting your husband and how he drew you out of yourself or your world opened up. I have had pivotal times of my life when I have met someone who has done the same thing for me. I love seeing these people as “helping souls” or angels that come into our lives to encourage us to grow. It is always a liberating experience to be set free and feel more expansive, and to experience the world in ways we never thought possible or never even thought of period. I think you are right; we really do tap into parts of our psyche that we have never used. When this happens it feels like a miracle is taking place. It is life transforming. Thank you dearheart. Lots of love back to you.
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ZuzannaM Says:
8 September 2009 at 7:37 pm.
Dear, Robin
Thank you for the wonderful article that educates.
In addition, empowers the self-esteem of an individual.
This is to you my little write, in response to yours.
DO NOT BE AFRAID!
To risk is to live your life fully
Facing each new day with bravery
It could be a day filled with hardship
This shall not stop you from going ahead.
There is no other option for anyone
We do risk everything always.
Life brings challenges along the way
From childhood to adulthood as well.
Do not be afraid to make these moves
What life has in store for you?
It will happen anyway, so do not shiver
Do not be scared, bravery will take you long way.
September – 2009
By Zuzanna Musial
©2009 Zuzanna Musial
Robin Replies
Dearest Zuzanna, I read this and do you know what comes to mind immediately? I felt like a child who’s mother was singing a soothing lullaby, and you had just made my world right again. The whole tone of it is one that makes the world feel safe and that all things are possible, that all will happen as it was meant to. This would make a beautiful child’s prayer or lullaby. Your words are very encompassing and sooth a weary stressed world. I bet you were/are a wonderful mother. You have lived soooooo much in your lifetime and it has made your wise, one who lives from her heart. Thank you for such a loving work of art. This one really moved me deeply.
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Starflight/marcellemieux Says:
8 September 2009 at 8:32 pm.
Hello my friend, I sure find your series interesting.Taking risks, did take a few…..good one,s and not so good one,s..but that was my learning…….What about intuition? I say its a part of the invisible language of the soul and heart…I know it has served me well many times. I think there is a lot more bravery and risks takers that we imagine out there. Many have never had a single compliment in their life and yet they did some Grand things. Some risked to opened their Heart, some took decisions about Love, some made radical changes and were scared to death at the time but today are happy…..Like you say in your intro, there is a listening, a heart impulse, a calling that might pull you in a direction you never even thought of…its risky but it could turn out to be a whole new way to look at life..when a child walk,s while growing up he falls down sometimes then he get back up and walks again and he is also curious by nature…How is one to discover courage, values, humility, love, compassion, nobleness, or what he or she is capable of, if one takes no risks whatsoever. Being alive is an action path and even in the smallest of actions there is something to learn…, Saying you are sorry to someone is not always easy you take a risk, after you go your way…We are living in a society that numbs peoples in so many ways, and it often implies the secure-insecure issues…it not so much the idea of blaming it, but more the idea of learning to think for ourselves, doing new stuff, awakening to life..and all at own pace and time…peace
Robin Replies
Dear Marcel, As always your wisdom just washes over me and leaves me feeling like the forest after a spring rain, refreshed, clean and so alive. These words pieced my heart: “I think there is a lot more bravery and risks takers that we imagine out there. Many have never had a single compliment in their life…”
I agree, not only that there are SO very many brave souls in the world and I think most go without a single compliment. That just touches me and wants me to say, “I honor and send love to all the unseen souls in the world, all those who live courage and bravery every day, some just to stay alive. You are the world’s true heroes.” Oh Marcel, it is SO like you to think of these people and be such a humble man. It is one thing to think we are taking a risk to leave a job we don’t enjoy (and it may feel very real and it’s important not to negative these feelings and circumstances), but it is quite another for children in developing countries to takes risks every single day just to try and stay alive.
I just can’t get over your heartfelt connection with Life. You don’t come from your head or books or teachings you come from a very raw and visceral place, just as Nature does. It feel very experiential, which is something I intensely relate to. Like the child you refer to, learning to walk and falling down and getting up again over and over. I LOVE living an experimental life. Everything I learn is then imprinted in my entire being and not just a thought in my mind. I LOVE this knowing of yours: “Being alive is an action path and even in the smallest of actions there is something to learn…” Yes, my dear soul brother, this is Life at it’s best! And as you say we all learn in our own way and time. Your wisdom and beautiful spirit is a gift.
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Michelle (Artscapes) Says:
8 September 2009 at 8:52 pm.
No matter what the tune…. DANCE!
Robin Replies
Dear Michelle, I laughed out loud over this delightful little comment. I just LOVE it. Yes, no matter what we must ALWAYS dance!
It made me think of this: “…And those were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music.” ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
No matter what my friends, let your souls dance on, even if no one else hears the music you hear!
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Steven Aitchison Says:
8 September 2009 at 10:45 pm.
Robin, whenever I come to read your blog I automatically stretch out, put my feet on the table, magnify the text a little and drink a cup of your warm words. Your blog is like a mini zen retreat, where you come to get away from it all.
I’ve taken many risks in my life and with all the risks I have taken I have learned more about myself and the world around me. The biggest risk I ever took was going to a party, which i had no intention of going to. It was the day I had decided that I would be single for the rest of my life,as i could not find the right person to settle down with, and at the age of 32 I didn’t think I was ever going to find her. I was extremely happy being single with the occasional romantic interlude and having lots of friends, so deciding to be single was an easy decision for me. To celebrate my new pledge of singledom, I went to the party and was having a great time when at around 7.30pm on the night of the 19th July 2002 my future wife walked in, she was and is stunning and our two sons are amazing. Going to the party is the best risk I ever took.
Robin Replies
Dear Steven, I love what you wrote here it made me smile and I found myself picturing you at your desk with you legs stretched out and a warm mug in your hand. I am very touched by your kind heartfelt words. And yes, I could imagine you taking many risks. But I would never have suspected a story like this. I LOVE it. It is a beautiful love story. It would make a great theme for a movie. It is the key lesson of when we want something and keep trying to get it and then we finally just “let go and let Life” in walks our dream. I am so happy that you both met and now have beautiful sons…family. I’d say it was a risk well worth taking. Thank you my friend.
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Walter Says:
9 September 2009 at 10:00 am.
I dearly love the bold and courageous, and all kind hearts.
There is always a fear factor involved in risk; this is why many people find it so stimulating.
No Fear. There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves a negative outcome, and the one who fears is not perfected in love. At this point in my life, I see no risks, only choices. To be complacent with primitive tradition, or to continue to grow spiritually in divine love. And since I believe that all our images of God are products of the limited power of human understanding and no human being knows what God is really like, I can only wonder what led many of our ancestors to conceive of God in such a stark way and marvel at God’s many bipolar descriptions.
The ancient Scriptures of the Judeo-Christian tradition portray a God whose behavior is erratic, unstable, and often cruelly violent.
Yet tough the unwise may see it as a weakness, the Great Spirit is indeed the God of Love.
Robin Replies
Dear Walt, I so resonate with a god, great spirit, creator, IS, Universe, (whatever one wants to call it) as being a Being of infinite love, IT is LOVE, love so sweet, love so compassionate and infinitely tender that there is not a day goes by that I’m not moved to tear by it. I have a saying on my bathroom wall that goes something like this: “There are basically only two primary emotions, fear and love. In the presence of complete fear there is no love. In the presence of complete love there is no fear.” Oh Walt, I also resonate so much when you say that at this point in your life there is no fear, only choices. Yes. I understand you. Once we make the choice to live in Conscious Awareness (a term Jonathan Wells uses) risks don’t really exist. Life become simply about always choosing that which makes us more aware, more compassionate, more kind, more loving. Thank you dear “Wise Walt”. I am grateful.
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Randall Says:
9 September 2009 at 10:43 am.
Eloquent as usual, Robin. We risk-takers need the encouragement of one another, thanks for providing.
I’ve always felt that one of the saddest situations would be to come to the end of our lives and be filled with regret for the “paths not taken”. Far better to follow a path that beckons and stumble along the way than to not even venture onto it in the first place.
Randy
Robin Replies
Dear Randy, SO good to see you again. Your words here are SO beautiful. This is EXACTLY it. This is what keeps me ALWAYS walking into the unknown. Like you I would much rather follow a path and stumble, make mistakes and even get lost than not to EVER have ventured out. That would be the death of me. I don’t even care if I stumble or get lost, it’s just that I live a life where I DO venture out. I love that word “venture”. It so fits how I feel and what I am doing when I head into the unknown. Randy, I really find your words here very fortifying. They have far more impact and power than you may know. Actually, I’m sure you DO know. For some reason they were what I needed to hear this week. Thank for taking the time to share them. It is always an gift. PS I look at all you have done and are doing in/with your life and you have sure gone off the beaten path many times, both literally and I’m sure figuratively. You are an inspiration for me.
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Gail @ A Flourishing Life Says:
9 September 2009 at 5:08 pm.
Such a beautiful post about living our truth. It starts with listening to our inner guidance, then having the courage to actually move forward and take the risk. It only feels like a risk when there is fear. I have come to trust the inner knowing and joyously surrender to its call. Now I am ALIVE, and so happy…
Robin Replies
Dear Gail, I am soooo glad you left a comment here and I had the honor of meeting you and seeing your beautiful smiling face and kind eyes…and reading your lovely site. Thank you for your generous words. —Yes, listening to our inner guidance is so crucial. It’s something that many of are never taught to recognize. In fact, our culture tends to do the opposite and teach us to NOT listen to it. But even that doesn’t matter because it’s always with us and we can learn to listen and access it at any point in our lives. It’s part of who we are. I also love how you say “surrender to it”. I am learning over and over to trust my intuition and heart and to not question its wisdom., but to surrender. It’s never let me down, not once. Thank you dear Gail. Love, Robin
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Dorothy Stahlnecker Says:
9 September 2009 at 6:05 pm.
My biggest risk or challenge is to leave my job and do what I now realize is my true passion writing and sharing in the blogspsehre learning from each other and feeling what all of us experience every day when we express ourselves and tell what we lived and hoping others our readers who have become our friends will grow from what we’ve done or felt this web is powerful the serenity and nourishment can be unpredictable and I’m working towards being able to write share and feel whatever life has left for me and tell you so you can go out there and have the same moments. Together we are filled with emotions and life and Robin your right continue to teach us how to step out of our norm and feel everything there is, some without words only emotions to know and attempt to later share.
I’m there, feeling more then ever and hoping for even more as these feelings are too good to let go.
Blessings as i adore your thoughts…
Dorothy from grammology
grammology.com
Robin Replies
My dear Dorothy friend, this is lovely what you’ve shared here. I did not know this about you. I am so proud of you for trusting the calling to leave your job and share your wisdom with the world as you are indeed wise. But you are more than wise you are brave, determined, indomitable and a shinning model of courage and goodness for so many. Yes, I can easily see this as your calling. This is very exciting news. I see how you inspire so many people. It is choices like yours, when actively lived, that change the world. I too adore your thoughts and you my friend.
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Liara Covert Says:
9 September 2009 at 6:42 pm.
Dearest Robin, your post about taking risks invites individuals to be more open and honest with themselves about their true feelings. My sense of shifting consciousness grows based on how I choose to take perceived risks and also teach myself that the concept of risk is an illusion. The series of biggest risk ever posts on my blog outlines for instance, how I met the man of my dreams and why I chose to make decisions that have transformed my life. This story inspired my recently published Self-Disclosure: Changes from Within book which empowers readers to reframe everything that is happening as a lesson in love. Everyone is learning at their own pace.
Robin Replies
Dear Beautiful Liara, I love this as I too know a world where “risk” is an illusion. So it is so wonderful to see this here. As you say, it really does come down to how we choose to perceive risk, and for that matter how we perceive mistakes, fear, traumatic or stressful events, etc. If we see all of Life as an opportunity to grow, all of life as a school where we can become more fully what we already are, Love, then everything is only more “fodder” for growth. It is a powerful vehicle that will take us “home”. Once we look at life in this way we stop resisting, start enjoying the fascinating ride and have one massive adventure. —Yes, I loved your beautiful, wild and wonderful story on your site of how you met the man of your dreams. Stepping off the precipice into the Unknown is a free fall into the arms of Love. Thank you dear one.
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Lisis Says:
9 September 2009 at 8:52 pm.
Wow! Where have you been all my life? Seriously, I feel like there’s been this fabulous party going on over here and I have been missing it! This post is amazing, and the comments are so loving and wise… I can’t wait to go back and read the others in this series (and to look through your archives).
I’ve definitely made it a point to listen to my heart as much as is humanly possible. I’m big on taking chances and daring to live life to the fullest. I can see that you have that same spirit of adventure that I have!
Remind me to thank Lance for “introducing” us!
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Dear Lisis, What fresh warm breeze you are that just blew in. I am so glad we are finally connecting. I can feel the openness of your beautiful spirit both here and on your site. I am moved by your kind words and spontaneous vibrant energy. Are you on Facebook? I have to see if I’ve added you and if you are on there. I could tell from your site that you are a soul who savors life and jumps in with your entire being as if compelled and without choice because you are so in love with Life. I REALLY know this feeling. —I too will thank Lance for introducing us. I kind of jumped into the “cheese” thing the other night and he really had no choice BUT to introduce us. I also know that he did so very willingly and lovingly. Glad to meet a kindred soul.
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Robin Easton Says:
9 September 2009 at 8:52 pm.
Dear Friends,
I will respond to the rest of your comments tomorrow (Thursday).
I am SO enjoying your beautiful shares. You are the MOST amazing souls I could ever meet. I am so deeply grateful that you have made and continue to make life choices that forge your character in ways that make you wise, compassionate, funny, loving and just plain kind.
It really goes to show that the choices we make not only affect our own lives but the lives of all those we come in contact with. Even if we came in contact with NO one, our choices and thoughts STILL affect the entire Universe.
Love,
Robin
Good night all, I’m off to dream my world into existence.
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Dear Robin, Yes, you do have some of the world’s most amazing people come to your blog and openly share their beautiful thoughts, wisdom and hearts. It is almost more than I can comprehend. It is a very humbling experience. Well, just popped in to say hi to you Robin. Take good care of yourself and start getting to bed earlier. Okay? Love and hugs to you dear Robin.
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Wilma Ham Says:
9 September 2009 at 8:59 pm.
My big heart Robin, YES the heart is the intelligent one, the heart is connected to a wisdom the mind cannot access.
Risk, fear is all made up, because when I live in the moment there is no risk just what is right there in front of me.
Our societal conditioning has a LOT to answer for and oh yes, let it layer for layer go away in nature.
Let us peel that off until we are naked in Eden and free from that nonsense about risk and losing, losing what????
You peel it all off from us too with role modeling it for us and to show us there is nothing to fear other than fear itself.
Loving life is what makes us free from risk and some of the comments here are showing that freedom from risk.
Big hug from heart to heart, Wilma
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Dearest Wilma, WOW!! I LOVE this line: “…the heart is the intelligent one, the heart is connected to a wisdom the mind cannot access.” That just floods me with great peace and beautiful emotion. My body KNOWS it as truth. Your bring another important aspect to the table. Living in the moment. Oh yes, dear Wilma. When we are living life fully right now, there is no risk, only what we are in this instant and the next and the next. —Isn’t it amazing how social conditioning just falls away layer by layer in Nature. I too found this to be very true and talk about it in my book that I just finished. Nature strips us down to our core essence until we truly are “Naked in Eden”. I LOVE the way you expressed that. You have really given me a gift here in summarizing this so beautifully in so few words. It just blew me away. Your clarity is astounding. I feel like you see right to the heart of Life and what is truly of importance. You also give me words for what I simply walk around “being”. I read a quote the other day that said something to the fact that once we experience we have few words. I feel like this so often. I see it in you, in that you express truth with so few words, and yet the words your use and how your write them say it ALL and often leave me breathless and with tears of joy in my eyes. Isn’t it so true the more we just live, REALLY live, the more we LOVE Life, that is all we know. There is no risk, no fear. Just a hunger for Life. Yes, dear friend a HUGE hug from heart to heart. Always, R
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Vin - NaturalBias Says:
10 September 2009 at 5:33 am.
Very inspiring post, Robin! As someone who loves to learn and eagerly anticipates the excitement of trying new things, I wholeheartedly agree that we need to be more daring in pursuing the things that fulfill us. I particularly like the quote by Picasso.
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Dear Vin, Thank you for stopping in. I can easily see you as someone who plunges in to life and tries new things and seeks out that which fills you with joy and vitality. You reflect that on your site in your zest for living. It’s what you are all about. I encourage you to always be so. It really suits you. —I too love the Picasso quote. He says it so well and simply. Thank you my friend.
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Nothing profound Says:
10 September 2009 at 8:02 am.
Life is a constant process of going into the unknown. We live constantly with risk, and disappointment is never far away. We never know when the ground will crumble beneath our feet. So it’s courage, faith, resilience and good humor we need along the way.
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Dear “Profound”. Thank you for sharing here. You are wise. Love your line: “Life is a constant process of going into the unknown.” That simple statement is so “Profound” that I could write a whole post just on it alone. I love it. I also adore the way you reminded us of “good humor”. Oh YES!!! That is so so important. I could go through life without laughing, and not just when times are easy and good, but when times are more challenging, ESPECIALLY when times are challenging. Thank you so much for such beautiful thoughts. They and you are appreciated.
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Plastic Mancunian Says:
10 September 2009 at 10:15 am.
Hi Robin,
I may possibly have failed this one because I am a bit of a coward. Perhaps “coward” is the wrong term because really I spend too much time weighing up the pros and cons of any decisions and then choose the safe option. I have taken risks in the past and in some ways I am adventurous (in that I will leap at any chance to travel to a weird place) but these are few and far between. I would love to dump my job and do something more interesting but it would be a risk too far. Mrs PM, on the other hand, is almost the complete opposite; she is impulsive and she will dare to take any risks. She is forever chastising me for not taking a chance and “analysing the situation too much”. However, she does persuade me to leap into the unknown sometimes, so I guess that she is my one hope to succeed in this particular portal. That’s one of the reasons that I love her – she is my spirit of adventure personified.
:0)
Cheers
PM
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My dear PM, I just LOVE this part of you. This comment just touched me so much because once again you are SO honest. I love your ability to just tell it like it is. It just realized (right now) as I was writing that your honesty and openness is an act of courage or “risk taking”. It’s weird how we often don’t see our own courage. You see it so well in your wife and I am deeply moved by the way you talk about her when you say, “she is my spirit of adventure personified.” It is obvious that you love and respect her very much. That is so refreshing to see, especially so openly and endearingly expressed. I REALLY admire that in you. I also know for certain that one of your strengths is talking openly and humorously about any fears you might have. I think it’s one reason I so enjoy your writing; it just is what it IS. It’s so honest. Maybe just as it’s easy for your wife to take certain risks it’s easy for you to take other types of risks…like being honest about yourself. Regardless, I still say you passed through the final portal with brave flying colors. You have an earnest and sincere heart and are able to take risks in expressing who you REALLY are. I like that a lot. Also, one last thought. I am going to see you in my thoughts getting to move beyond that job into something that you really love doing, all in the right time. You deserve the best and have enormous talent. My best to you and that adventurous beautiful wife of yours.
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gene Says:
11 September 2009 at 1:20 am.
I wanted to start by saying that I want to take risks, but I don’t have time, and suddenly I had this image of your previous 3 posts in my mind, and the one that stood out was “Turn off the Bombardment” and I thought but I do have time, now at least, now that I don’t have that much ‘Bombardment’ in my life. And I think the greatest risk I ever took was to get rid of the Bombardment, I mean I grew up with a TV in the house, and the only time I didn’t watch TV was when.. Nope I can’t think of a time, but the last month and a half of no TV brought some perspective, and last night was another Risk I took.
Got out my study material of a course I’m doing, I sort of gave up on it, but last night I took the risk of opening the files and started reading it again, and I’m eager to finish the assignments now.. I’m sort of looking at it through different eyes, and it’s one risk I want to complete this year, and then I also want to do another course, but will register for it next month..
thank you for this series, It all suddenly made sense, and it’s amazing how all 4 posts tie together!! Excellent job!!
Hope you get enough sleep, but please, I beg you please, what ever you do, don’t hibernate this Winter!!!! LOL
Keep Well
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Dearest HE that is NOT a SHE, This comment touches my heart because I completely understand where you are coming from about this. I grew up without a TV and have lived all my adult life without a TV except for one very very brief period, and then I ditched it. But a couple of years ago I started to watch movies at home and I found that it totally robbed me of my life. And it truly was addictive. When I was tired instead of going to bed or doing something soothing (like a hot bath or a short easy walk in the fresh air) I would just zone out and watch a movie. I started to notice how all night my poor brain had to process all the high speed images that had come at me during the movie. I stopped dreaming, I woke exhausted, and my brain felt altered. So I finally sold the TV and gave all the movies to a man who had recently been paralyzed when a car hit him (he was bed ridden).
The first few days after that I felt almost disoriented and lost… and YES it felt like a HUGE risk, because I felt like, “Now what?” And that is so not me. I always LOVED doing creative things and gardening and playing my piano, guitar or flute or doing photography, etc. As I observed myself I was stunned that something like TV or even movies could be THAT addictive and actually alter our whole psyche, and alter it to the extend that once the TV is gone we are STILL so muddled that it takes awhile before we’re able to reorient ourselves back toward active healthy living. This is why it’s so hard for kids. When the TV is taken away they’re lost. I was blessed in that when my Dad got rid of our TV (when I was a tiny kid) he ALSO took me and my five siblings into nature hiking, canoeing, skiing, camping, etc. So we weren’t just left to flounder around. He shifted our focus from “watching life” to living Life”.
I’m SO proud of you and the changes I see in your life. Yes, That was a HUGE risk/shift for you. And one you are now embracing. If you keep doing so, you will simply be amazed at how your WHOLE life will open up to you. If you can just keep going “things WILL happen” that you can’t yet imagine. You will also continue to have insights into your life as you now have contrast, possibly the first time. I am so proud of you my dear friend. This is SO big. It’s the difference between Life and Death. You are now consciously choosing Life.
Also loved your thoughtful and insightful comments on this series. You helped me see it in a new way. Thank you SO much for that. It’s gift I treasure. AND….I hate to tell you this but it is STILL soooooooo hot here that I am wearing shorts today. I mean, its HOT HOT here, lots of sun, lettuce growing in the garden, birds chirping, sunny warm…yup, No winter here!!! LOLOL!!! Hey, I’m holding out as long as I can!!!! Hugs to you my good friend. I’m so very proud of you. Keep going! Thank you.
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Bob Yeager Says:
11 September 2009 at 3:39 am.
Robin, I was told by my grandfather… many years ago, that those who take risks in life, live a more fulfilling life experience; those who take risks in war, are those who save the most lives and those who take risks in love, tend to be the most passionate of lovers.
You take risks in your writing… and that is why you are able to touch the core of our hearts, thank you for that.
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Dear Bob, What a treat to see you here. I’ve been exploring your fascinating videos. What a story you have to tell. You are someone of great courage and tenacity. I particularly love the part about gathering firewood while still walking with canes (crutches?) and using a blow and arrow to hunt your own food for your family. A very moving story. I also love your grandfather’s quote. What a wonderful legacy he left you. I also am honored by your insightful words about my writing. They touch me. Although, I have to say that I rarely “think” about what I write, it is instead a feeling. I feel compelled to love those souls who touch my life and even those I’ve yet to meet. We can only take in so much love and then we are compelled to share it with the world. And I’ve taken in a LOT of Love in my lifetime. Thank you for sharing here. I SO appreciate it.
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Roger Says:
11 September 2009 at 9:57 am.
Hi Robin,
This series has been incredible! Reading through the comments of the last four posts causes me to get a bit choked up as I see the way people are so positively impacted by your writings. Your words are a special comfort to me since you always seem to say something I need to hear.
When we take risks in life we open ourselves to all the greatness our world has to offer, yet fear of failure prevents many of us from taking the first step. As soon as a risky idea arises we begin a complex process of the “what ifs”, that ultimately makes us give up before we start. While this can serve to keep us from taking bad risks, it also prevents us from taking good risks as well. We need to learn to trust our own wisdom and that of those we trust to help us tell the difference.
The greatest rewards I have received in life have come from taking risks. That being said, my conditioned self struggles with the idea that I do not deserve the luxury of taking risks because it may affect someone around me. The logical mind vs the emotional mind struggle. Perhaps this is not always a bad thing since my true nature tends to want to jump first and make sure someone filled the pool on the way down.
Bless you for your willingness to share the richness of your wisdom and heart. I always leave here with an uplifted spirit and sense of well being. You are truly special.
Namaste,
Roger
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Geez Dear Roger, This is SO beautiful I’m left stunned. What a rich soul you have. Just amazing. —-I’m very touched by your heartfelt encouragement and generous words. I also agree that the comments on this series were simply sterling, singularly beautiful. I shed a lot of joyful tears reading them. I deeply regretted every the times work prevented me from responding to them all. —-I really loved your words here in reference to the “what ifs”: “While this can serve to keep us from taking bad risks, it also prevents us from taking good risks as well. We need to learn to trust our own wisdom and that of those we trust to help us tell the difference.” Beautiful! —-You also introduced a whole new aspect to all this that — as I read it — I realize I used feel this a LOT when I was much younger. You just gave me the words to describe how I felt then: “I do not deserve the luxury of taking risks…” YES!! I totally relate to this. As if I alone might upset the entire “world balance” or even family or relationship balance if I took a risk. As I’ve grown older I’ve learned that risks, when taken, usually invite everyone around me to grow. Yes, it may initially upset the status quo of a family or relationship, but in the long run — being true to our hearts — gives everyone around an opportunity to grow. I’ve also learned the difference between foolish risks (which may only be foolishness and not really risks) AND those risks that come from heart-knowing or a sense of strong truth or “rightness” deep in our core. And sometimes we just have to jump to find out the difference. Aaah, you have inspired me greatly today. For that I am so grateful. I too go away from your sharing feeling uplifted and inspired. Thank you dear Roger. Nameste, my friend.
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Mike Foster Says:
11 September 2009 at 10:46 pm.
Hey Robin! Another wonderful post, wrapping up your excellent four portals. We must be on the same wavelength since I just wrote a post about change, which is very often about risk taking. I like to say, “If you are not changing then you are not living.” Taking risks and accepting failure as a mandatory tool for improving is, for me, the only way to live.
peace,
mike
livelife365
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Kit Says:
11 September 2009 at 11:16 pm.
So many instances pop into my mind, big, small and in-between. . . one thing that I’ve noticed though, is that when I follow my heart’s knowing, things just work out OK. So it becomes easier over time to take the risks, to step off the precipice, because so many times before I have made that first step only to find a bridge materializing under my feet as I go.
When I was pregnant with my first child, my brother in law and I were watching a crazy bunch of kids wreak noisy havoc. Curiously, he asked if I was really ready to become a parent. I had to explain that you can’t be ready- not really. No matter what, you will never be ready to be a parent. The question is, are you ready to take that leap of faith? Do you have the conviction of “damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead”? That’s what it takes to be a parent. Faith, grit and lots of love. It’s a huge risk, an overwhelming responsibility. I wasn’t ready- but I was certain it was the path for me.
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Robb Says:
12 September 2009 at 1:06 pm.
Kia ora Wild Sister,
As usual your thoughts and the comments here run true to my own life. I have just returned from the mountains with Taylor. A risk of sorts to travel with a teen ager to a place that has such meaning for me. Yet because it also brings out the best in me, I was able to not expect anything and simply accept everything. I saw the little boy inside there come out and play, chatting away being in the moment. Which allowed my own inner chiild to emerge as well. We had fun! And even if driving home I saw the blanket of teenagehood roll back over him, at least I know that little boy is inside the young man, and that he is okay.
We also have welcomed a new addition to our family. T is barely 5 and has lived a life no child so should be exposed to. Sexual abuse, neglect, and being used in every way possible by exploiters. Our job, Tara, Taylor’s, Charlie’s, and my own, is simply to keep this boy safe, to keep him connected to his cultural roots, to help him wash out all the bad things and just be a boy. It is a risk for all our family, but the rewards are possibly too great to not take it on. I get great strength from you Wild Sister, and from those who share here such varied and inspirational moments in their lives. We are all connected. Rave on Robin. Kia kaha!
Aroha,
Robb
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Sandra Says:
12 September 2009 at 3:21 pm.
Well said, Sister-Friend, Well said! My mother taught me to take risks and my father taught me to be cautious. The balance hasn’t always been easy but risk taking is a lot more fun and you learn so much. Great Post!
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Márcia Cobar Says:
14 September 2009 at 10:36 am.
Dear Robin,
I want you to know that these words, these words of yours were written to inspire and bring peace to some hearts, incliding mine. Its impressive the connection that I feel with your space here, cause I am in a moment in life to take big risks and the unknown was frightening me, I even wrote on my blog yesterday about it. Insecurity was knocking on my door, turning my crystal clean future into a blurry landscape. But yes, as you have beautifully said, “So when we’re called to take risks we must trust that Life knows what it’s doing”. Wow, that is so powerful Robin! I know life knows what it is doing. And trusting that powerful wisdom of the Universe is my favorite path towards my inner peace.
Best wishes, always!
Márcia
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29 September 2009 at 1:03 am.
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The Secret To Your Life - Ryan Says:
4 January 2010 at 8:14 am.
Haha, how perfect that I find this post today. I have been taking some big risks in my life, and they are paying off… a few of them do fall into stupid stunt category, but mostly they fall into the category of stepping wayy outside my comfort zone and pushing the limits of myself, my beliefs, and the beliefs of those I surround myself with.
Thank you so much for your post and your reminder that the risk is worth it.
Ryan
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Trish Scott Says:
4 January 2010 at 11:48 am.
I just found this post through a comment made here. It was before my time with you. Of course I am one for whom “…safety is akin to death.” I’ve never understood how people just go on and on in the cultural ruts to which they were born. When I was younger and trying to tow the line I was sick and miserable. I didn’t know how to live my life. After an especially heart wrenching experience, the loss of a foster son to the system, I went into a nearly catatonic state for 6 months. I sat on the couch doing needle work to appear as if I were doing something and reading The History of Western Civilization in 12 volumes by Will & Amy Durrant to try to get perspective. My husband learned to cook and my small children continued to grow but I was not there for any of it. Finally I had a vision of a light body emerging from the primal ooze, perfect in every aspect of it’s beingness. It was I – it was all. And I realized in that moment that I had never – not once – taped into that light that was “I am”.
I emerged as a wobbly newborn into a life I knew nothing of. It was the beginning of the end of everything I had known. It was the beginning of the life I had always known. I know the fear of risk and I know fearlessness. I don’t care what THEY say, fearlessness is better. Now I am here to say, you can not be hurt through any method at all. Light bodies are forever.
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bonglaz Reply:
December 2nd, 2009 at 10:58 pm
I want to take the risk of writing you..You have touched my senses Robin. I have been taking all the risks all my life, Unfortunately, I have not yielded yet the victory due me for taking such risks. I still have a mediocre lifestyle. I gambled to change my jobs thinking that I can bring things to their next level. But I just feel I need to take some more risk in order to take the price due me..Continue touching people’s lives with your blog..I’ll keep in touch..
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