8 June 2010
The Soul of New York City
Posted by Robin Easton under: Hobnobbin' with Robin .
Dear friends, nothing could have prepared me for the full impact of New York City. It was larger (in every way) than I could ever comprehend. When I arrived home I was in shock. Fortunately, my beautiful husband suggested we take a picnic and spend the next day in the woods. We did nothing more spectacular than share simple food, take a sunny walk, lay under a juniper tree, hold hands, laugh, and communicated with our eyes. I felt healed.
Later that day I shared with my sweetie my NY City experience. My flight landed in Newark, so I had a three hour shuttle ride to my hotel in Times Square. People of every color and size thronged the streets. Vehicles and pedestrians flowed like great rivers and merged into a seemingly chaotic blur, one which was surprisingly orderly. Homeless people and garbage were stepped over as if nonexistent. Trees were scarcer than humans in Australia’s central deserts. I felt claustrophobic, encased on either side by towering buildings. I had to remind myself to breathe, remind myself that I still stood on Mother Earth.
So how did this “nature woman” deal 
with all this? I reached out to those around me and simply loved them. I didn’t wait for Life to give me something; I dove in and gave to Life. I invited people to share their life stories, thanked them for their hard work and kindness, patted their arm and let them know they were seen and appreciated. Doing this not only made me feel more connected and alive, but it seemed to bring others to life. We all want to be seen, appreciated and loved.
I loved the smiling young Jamaican van driver who picked me up in Newark. He became lost, but three hours later dropped me at my hotel in Times Square. (I tipped him anyway and thought he’d cry because he was so grateful). Then there was the middle aged man from India who returned me to my hotel after my book signing. He was very proud of his work, family and American citizenship. There was the middle aged woman from Argentina who drove me back to Newark to get my plane home. She’d been in NY City twenty-two years, also an American. She had claustrophobia and intense fear of being in rural areas with lots of trees, which was as real as my claustrophobia of being in the city with no trees.
These hardworking, down to earth people helped me more than they’ll ever know. For me, they were the soul of NY City. They keep the wheels of the city turning and the heartbeat alive. They made my days more humane in an environment that felt very inhumane.
At Book Expo America I met many of the Health Communications, Inc. (HCI Books) crew that has diligently and creatively worked on Naked in Eden. They were so kind and helpful. I was proud of them and the job we’ve all done to bring this book to fruition. I also listened to Ziggy Marley play his guitar while I signed books. He sat at the table next to me and signed copies of his book Dear Dad.
The thing I loved most about the book expo was the people who came to my table to get a copy of Naked in Eden. They touched my heart with their stories, tears and genuine desire to connect. They were delightfully open. Some even brought gifts. I was so wrapped up in these people that I forgot I was there to sign a book I’d written. What a wonderful feeling, to forget oneself and become lost in touching the lives of others.
It was the good people of NY City that helped me make sense of a place that made no sense at all to me. As I’ve talked with my sweetheart over the last few days I begin to understand that so much of life is what we choose to focus on. No matter how overwhelming NY City felt, by focusing on the positive things I was able to find the soul of the city, the soul of humanity.
Love,
Robin
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70 Comments so far...
Jay Says:
8 June 2010 at 4:11 pm.
As Simon and Garfunkle once sang, “there’s a heart, a heart that beats in New York.” I’m glad that you were able to connect with that heart, and that it kept you safe and sane while in the midst of chaos and confusion. Truly, our focus determines our reality, and so I’m glad you chose to focus on the positive and therefore had a positive experience. I’m even more glad that you made it home safe and sound!
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Lynn Says:
8 June 2010 at 4:29 pm.
Such beauty Robin.
I know you changed the vibration in the city with your presence, and these people are talking about you as you’re writing about them.
I loved reading this.
Thank you 
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 8th, 2010 at 4:39 pm
Dearest Lynn, this insight of yours means so much to me. I hadn’t thought of it like this until you mentioned “changing the vibration”, but of course, we really do that even when we reach out one person at a time. It REALLY can and does change the world. I just love you for reminding me of this. It is important to hear when we are in a city/situation where change can at times seem overwhelming and/or hopeless. We don’t have to look at tackling the WHOLE city; we only need to reach out one person at a time, as best we can. Thank you dear heart. Hugs, Robin
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Tami Says:
8 June 2010 at 4:50 pm.
Whatever we focus on, grows.
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 8th, 2010 at 4:56 pm
Oh Dear Tami!!! What a TREAT to see you here. Yes, I agree. And I REALLY felt that on this trip. I REALLY had to make a decision while in the city as what I would focus on, because otherwise it was beyond comprehension for me. And it really paid off to focus on all these precious souls. Thank you my good friend. Hugs, Robin
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Alexander M Zoltai Says:
8 June 2010 at 5:09 pm.
So, when and where can we buy your book?
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 8th, 2010 at 5:39 pm
Hi Dear Alex! So good to see you here. My book is so far scheduled for Sept 1, release. But I noticed the other day that it looks like it can be pre-ordered from Amazon here http://www.amazon.com/Naked-Eden-Adventure-Australian-Rainforest/dp/0757315127 Thank you dear Alex. Hugs, Robin
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Trish Scott Says:
8 June 2010 at 5:15 pm.
Oh dear Robin, I knew you’d just love your way through NYC.
And speaking of like 2 degrees of separation – My Daughter in Law does a lot of work with Ziggy Marley – all the Marley’s really – as photographer/designer. Just got back from being on the road with some of that clan. Small world even in the chaos of NY
Welcome back!!!
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 8th, 2010 at 5:41 pm
Dearest Trish, Thank you for the encouraging words here and over all these months. You mean so much to me. AND how wild is this about your daughter in law and Ziggy Marley!! It sure IS a small world. How wild is THAT?!! Thank you dear friend. Hugs, Robin
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Shirley Says:
8 June 2010 at 6:30 pm.
Cities can be overwhelming but so can the trees and countryside. When I first moved to WV as a child we had an outhouse. I had never seen one before had no clue what I was supposed to do with it. The lifestyle grew on me. City life doesn’t make me claustrophobic, but I’m not sure I like it.
At the moment I am on vacation in Cleveland and I can’t wait to get home. I have had too much rudeness, car beeping, and small children screaming “!@#$ the police!” It made me so happy that we are raising the kids in WV.
I don’t think city life is for everyone and I don’t think country life is for everyone. Just depends on your tastes.
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 9th, 2010 at 3:12 pm
My dear sweet Shirley friend, I just LOVE your comments and I remember you once telling me about the outhouse and getting used to it. It made me smile at the time as we had one that was at the cottage that my grandparents had in the summer. I remember thinking it was pretty cool, like we were living like pioneers. LOL!! But then there were no poisonous snakes or spiders in Maine. I too am glad you are raising your kids in WV, especially with your intense connection to and love of Nature. It is a HUGE gift you are giving them. Hugs to you my dear friend. Robin —PS Was just at your site early this AM, and the inside of your home is stunning. You are an amazing interior decorator.
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Dottie Morrissette Says:
8 June 2010 at 6:39 pm.
I have always felt New York to be very overwhelming..anxiety kicks in and I feel as if I can’t breath. Maybe I’ll give it another try with your point of view not waiting for life to give to me but just dive in and give to life. I like that.
I will be ordering your book I know it will be awesome!!!!
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 9th, 2010 at 3:16 pm
Dear Dottie, I relate to what you wrote here. That is how it was for me too. My mood only shifted when I reached out to others….and then I forgot myself. Once I consciously realized that reaching out helped me, I kept doing it because it made a HUGE difference. —I am excited and honored that you are ordering my book. That is SO cool!! Thank you for your support and encouragement….and taking the time to leave an honest heartfelt comment. I appreciate that. Hugs, Robin
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Nick Grimshawe Says:
8 June 2010 at 8:00 pm.
Hi Robin, Sounds like you had an exciting and moving trip. While I am a country boy at heart, I have lived in the big Apple and loved the human experience…just the sheer flow of humanity, all with different dreams, and different hopes. So many stories all being told at the same time, side by side.
I found it breath taking and overwhelming all at once.
Congratulations again on the book. That is awesome.
Nick
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 9th, 2010 at 3:19 pm
Dear Nick, I always felt that country boy in you. It comes through in your writing and website, your love of nature and beauty. I just love your line: “…just the sheer flow of humanity, all with different dreams, and different hopes. So many stories all being told at the same time, side by side.” Wow!! That is beautifully poetic and very profound. You ought to save that one! You have really captured the feel of NYC. —And thank you, Nick, for your kind words of encouragement. They mean a lot to me. Hugs, Robin
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Jonathan - Advanced Life Skills Says:
8 June 2010 at 8:17 pm.
Welcome back Robin, somehow this was exactly the way I pictured your NY adventure. I just knew that you would extract whatever beauty there was and wrap yourself around it. That’s what you do, and I don’t think it’s location dependent. Your heart is bigger than New York because you look past the noise and see what is real. That’s one of the reasons that everybody loves you, you are love.
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 9th, 2010 at 3:23 pm
Jonathan my dear friend, I am touched by your faith/belief in me. Your words here moved me to tears; they are so lovely. I guess what I wrote in this post about humanity, applies to myself as well. “We all want to be seen, appreciated and loved.” So I thank you from my heart for “seeing” and reflecting that back to me, and to so many others. It is one of your many special gifts, and one the world needs right now. It really does change lives and allow others to see themselves through your eyes. Thank you my friend. Hugs, Robin
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ZuzannaM Says:
8 June 2010 at 8:46 pm.
Dear Robin, Congratulations!
What a story you have to share about a trip to New York. Everyone, that means people from Europe want to be in that place, me too. You have traveled a long way across your Homeland. The length for the trip by plane is as long as travel to Europe. I am trilled and excited about your achievements. Yes, and those who helped you there those are the people of America, those who make the day go by every day. I am so happy for you, for the excellent story you share with us. Thank you once again, good to have you back.
My warmest wishes,
Zuzanna
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 9th, 2010 at 3:27 pm
Dear beautiful Zuzanna, what a joy to see you here. Yes, I did travel about 13 hours including car, van, taxi and plane. It was a long haul. I had forgotten how long. I agree that these souls REALLY did make my trip. It is the part I remembered the most, the part that will stay with me, the part that changed my view of the world and even large cities. And I am not a city person and never will, but it was did me good to see soul still alive in the city. Thank you for sharing my dear wise friend. I have missed you, but then you are always with me. Hugs, Robin
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Julie Says:
8 June 2010 at 11:09 pm.
Hi, Robin, welcome home! What a wonderfully thoughtful husband you have, knowing exactly what you needed most.
Isn’t NYC a trip? It’s overwhelming, very taxing, but also fascinating. It’s always the “everyday man” who relaxes me. Somehow, speaking with down-to-earth and hard-working people reminds me of my own roots, giving me a sense of a safe haven amidst what seems to me nothing short of chaos. It appears you’ve discovered this, too, although your twist on it is far more generous, a beautiful outpouring of love. It’s so very “you!”
I love the stories you’ve shared of the people you befriended. Aren’t people just awesome?! Makes my heart swell. . .
Love you xoxo ~ Julie
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 9th, 2010 at 3:37 pm
Dearest Julie!!!
I love your comment!
And yes, my husband is a a rare soul, one who cares so deeply about others and sees to the heart of what is needed. He is my greatest gift from the Universe.
You have described it (this feeling connected dynamic) SO well here when you say, “…speaking with down-to-earth and hard-working people reminds me of my own roots, giving me a sense of a safe haven…” This is EXACTLY what I felt. Once I forgot myself and started to connect with these people I felt anchored and plugged in (”rooted”, as you say). Whether we fear the city or the country, I think if we can connect to the life around us whether that is plant, animal (including human) or rock, we then feel that “safe haven” you speak of, and we feel okay. We have a starting point to grow and expand. I just love your writing it is so very beautiful. The most poetic I’ve seen in a long long time. Love you too dear one! Robin
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Patty - Why Not Start Now? Says:
9 June 2010 at 12:41 am.
Hi Robin – I loved reading about your strategy for coping with NYC! You took me right back to another time, when I too landed in Newark and made my way to this megalopolis that seemed totally foreign to me. I sure wish I’d had your wisdom to reach out and connect with others when I lived there 30 years ago. I actually ended up quite isolated, a California girl wondering what the heck she’d gotten herself into. I only lasted two years, but I don’t regret it. I’ve since been back to visit, and now see the City from a different perspective. Plus, of course, the art and culture is amazing. I’m so glad your experience turned out to be a good one. A beautiful soulful experience.
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 9th, 2010 at 3:43 pm
Oh dear Patty!!! What a wonderful comment! Just reading this and knowing that you too landed in Newark and then ventured into the big city brought up an immediate feeling of kinship and made NYC not seem so foreign to me. I know that may sound silly but it really is things like that that can change our perspective. Wow! What a brave soul you are if you did that 30 years ago. I can hardly believe it. You must have been so young. I chuckled when you said “ONLY 2 years”. I’d say that was pretty dang good for a “California girl”. LOL!! I was there only days, I too wondered what I’d “gotten myself into”. But like you I don’t regret it at all. It all makes me stronger, more diverse, more open to life. Thank you for sharing this Patty; it touched me deeply. Hugs, Robin
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Plastic Mancunian Says:
9 June 2010 at 1:21 am.
Hi Robin,
I LOVE New York City – it is like a living, breathing leviathan and it is easy to get lost in the vast concrete jungle. However, during my two visits to the city, I immediately felt like I slotted in, like a cog in a giant machine.
The people are great and the city is great. Of course it has its bad points, just like any city, but its heart, I feel, is golden.
Still, it is equally satisfying to escape to the wilderness. I’ve just returned from a trip to the Canadian Rockies and Alaska and that trip sandblasted all the stress from my heart. The scenery was breath-taking and standing in the snow on a mountainside with nothing but cold crisp clean air blowing every single worry away is a fantastic experience.
I was at one with nature – although, I have to say, I had to keep an eye out for bears – it’s nice to be at one with nature but not at one with a giant teddy bear that can break your arm.
:0)
Cheers
PM
P.S. I hope you have every success with your fabulous book.
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 9th, 2010 at 3:54 pm
So, SOOOO cool to see you here “Plastic Man”!!! LOL! I needed the laughter you bring to life in me. I am stunned! You LOVE NYC, and yet you also LOVED the CR and Alaska. THAT is waaaay cool! I too have been to Alaska and it REALLY is something else. When I was there years ago it was as vast a barren as NYC is crowded and busy. I must admit as much as I loved it, I too kept an eye open for those HUGE grizzlies. There had a been a few attacks (a result of people leaving food and garbage around) when I was there. Then shortly after, there was a small earthquake, and a few other incidents that had me running back to Queensland, Australia to the “safety” of poisonous jellyfish, deadly snakes, stinging trees and paralysis ticks. LOLOLOL!! I KNOW how much you LOVE all those creatures in Australia. All that aside I am VERY proud of you for braving the teddy bears of Alaska. You go dude! Thank you for making me laugh today. I SO appreciate it. Hugs to you Plastic Man!! LOL!! Robin
PS By the way, your writing here (and both descriptions of NYC and Alaska) is just magnificent. I am waiting for your book! I’ve not forgotten your promise to me to finish by 2011. Right?!! RIGHT!!!
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Chrissy Says:
9 June 2010 at 4:30 am.
Hmmm, I am not a city person but as you say there is always something to connect with or something of wonder. I knew it would be people that got you through because you have a way of connecting that makes people feel special. That will always make you stand out, I can visualise these people you talk about and no doubt you will have had an impact on them for sure…
I am glad you are back safely and your day reconnecting sounds lovely. You remind me to be thankful for where I live…….the city is good for a visit. But, other people need to live there, people that like it, I feel almost threatened by obscurity in crowds.
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 9th, 2010 at 3:58 pm
Dearest Chrissy, I am deeply moved by your insight into me. It is a gift that I embrace with a open and grateful heart. Thank you my dear friend. Just thank you. I too am not a city person, and you have hit on something here that is exactly what happened to me. I came home SOOOOOOO grateful for where I live, all the trees, the grass, the cactus, the morning birds and scent of flowers and pinion, the sunset and sunrise outside my window, the relatively clean air and the space around me. I was so grateful that the day after I got home I just wanted to sit on the Earth and give thanks. Bless you for seeing this and understanding. Much love, Robin
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Jenny Mannion Says:
9 June 2010 at 5:31 am.
Hi Robin,
I definitely wondered how you would like NYC – thank you so much for sharing. NYC is my hometown and now I live upstate NY in the “city of hills”…. quite different but I do love both for the gifts they hold. I adore seeing so many different kinds of people and the magic a smile can bring in NYC where everyone is told “don’t make eye contact”. 
I love visiting but am quite happy when I return home to quiet and SPACE.
I am sure your kind heart and the love you exude added a gift to NYC that weekend Robin! I am so happy the book signing went well and wish you much success with it.
Much Love, xo
Jenny
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 9th, 2010 at 6:07 pm
Dearest Jenny, I did not know that you were from NYC. That is amazing. I always thought you were from a more rural area (growing up). But then as you say you are now happy to return home to quiet and SPACE. I too was FASCINATED by sooooo many kinds of people all in one place. People from all over the world and from every socioeconomic level. I thrive in diversity and love different cultures, ways of seeing the world, speaking, dressing, etc. NYC sure is about as diverse as it gets. Or so it seemed to me. Oddly, unlike some of my fellow passengers I was never bored in the long van rides to and from the airport. I became lost in “people watching”. I didn’t notice the buildings quite as much, except for some of the really old brick ones, but the people held me riveted. Thank you dear Jenny for sharing here. I really enjoyed learning more about you. So special. Hugs and so much love to you. Robin
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Hilary Says:
9 June 2010 at 8:22 am.
Hi Robin .. that is so good to hear .. the taxi drivers often are so interesting .. I too chatter along and ask them where they’ve come from, how their family are, what they’re doing etc .. it’s good to know & opens up one’s knowledge of life from a different place.
Sounds like you had a wonderful time .. learnt lots and made lots of friends .. and gave the book a good book send off on its merry way .. to global recognition .. I know it will make an impact on everyone in life .. as you do ..
More anon – and what a wonderful home-coming .. such a thoughtful husband .. & the away day sounds blissful .. have fun and enjoy the memories and the new found happiness of successfully getting the book this far .. making all your hard work worth every hair raising minute .. & you have some hair to raise!?! .. lots of hugs and love from here – Hilary
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 10th, 2010 at 12:48 am
Dearest Hilary, This comment is so filled with the richness of you. I can easily see you talking to cab drivers and so enjoying all the diversity. I think you are wonderfully curious. I see that in your site, as I watch you explore all the thrilling history that you share. Was at your site just a couple of days a go and thought what a great curious mind you have. Dear kind Hilary thank you for all your generous encouragement and belief in me. I also just LOVE the vitality in your comment here. Very much YOU!!
Also, you are so right; my husband is SO kind and thoughtful. I was in too much of a shock from travel to even see that I needed that day in Nature. I am deeply blessed that he saw and did that for me.
As to my hair…well, that truly is a hair raising story that I may blog about at a later date. I recently had to cut it off due to a dying disaster. So now I happily go gray!!! LOL! And am growing it out again.
You are a gem and always make me smile. I go away feeling so loved. Thank you precious Hilary. Much love to you, Robin
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Hilary Reply:
June 10th, 2010 at 9:26 am
Hi Robin .. absolute pleasure – you make us all feel so loved .. and nearly naked! Too much of a shock .. just so pleased it’s all gone so well and now you can continue that journey knowing that the first book is out there … with sequels in the pipe line?!
Didn’t they tell you – salt and pepper is great at adjusting the colour levels??!! Oh dear .. that must have been a shock .. but glad you’ve accepted fate gracefully apparently .. I’m just glad it didn’t all fall out .. join the many many silver surfers!!
Great – that you’re happy and enjoy life – that’s the most important thing .. you too have a lovely weekend .. much love Hilary
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nothingprofound Says:
9 June 2010 at 8:25 am.
Robin-your sound instincts always lead you to do the wise thing: to concentrate on the details. Eight million people are really only one. The Jamaican van driver, the middle-aged man from India, the woman from Argentina, each person who came to your table at the fair. By giving each your full attention, you enriched their lives as well as your own.
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 10th, 2010 at 12:53 am
Oh dear profound Marty!! Your words always leave me in awe, breathless and stunned by your ability to see right to the heart of things…and so quickly, easily. It is WHO you are. Just amazing. I love this: “Eight million people are really only one.” Yes, when we go straight to the soul we really do feel this connectedness to “the one”. We no longer feel separate, alone, cut off. It is a powerful realization and even more powerful experience. Thank you my beautiful wise friend. Hugging you, Robin
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Lance Says:
9 June 2010 at 8:51 am.
Robin,
This story is especially touching to me, as I have recently visited NYC (with my daughter) for the first time. I recall when we first arrived, late at night – and we took a taxi to our hotel. My daughter’s reaction – “it felt like we were criminals in that car”. And yet, after that – especially in our planned meetings with others – they were all so positive – and we did see the beauty of this city. Still, in just the normal strolling through the streets – I felt that same way – that I was just one lost in a sea of many.
So perhaps it really is about the personal connections we make. The store clerk. The waiter. A person in line for coffee. A stranger…and then a friendly face upon taking that time to connect in some way.
Robin, you do this so beautifully. So, this was so much different than what you are used to. And yet – at the heart of each of these people…is a soul. And in your gift of connecting with them, you touched those souls. (as you have mine so many, many times)
Your light shines so beautifully bright in every place you travel to on your life journey…
Love and wonderful caring hugs,
Lance
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 10th, 2010 at 1:17 am
Dearest Lance, Wow! This really blew me away. Your daughter is sooooo aware and open. What a wonderful gift you have given her that she can be so open and expressive with you. That touches me deeply. I can relate to how she felt.
I think you are so right it was very much the personal connections to total strangers that made me feel connected to the city, to humanity and to myself. In connecting to others whom I had never met, people who were down to earth, I no longer felt alone or cut off. I felt part of something larger.
I actually thought of you when you were in NYC and wondered how it all felt to you. I am also glad that you had some good experiences with others, as well. It certainly is a lot to take in and adjust to. I am glad you and your daughter had each other. If my husband could have got away from the college he would have gone with me. Having someone familiar with us I think can make the adjustment a bit easier. I remember sitting way up in my hotel room (Marriott Marquise in Times Square), it was late at night (first night there) and hearing the roar of this HUGE beast of a city out there and initially feeling very alone, cut off and far away. And I thought how odd that I have millions of people around me and I feel more alone than ever before in my life. That fascinated me. The streets throbbed with people but I didn’t know a single one of them. It wasn’t until the next day when I just reached out and connected with everyone who came my way that I once again plugged into the pulse of humanity.
Dear Lance thank you SO much for sharing here. I always feel warmer inside, more peaceful and seen. You have a huge loving heart that so openly touches all the lives who come your way. Just in being you, you offer others the gift of healing. Isn’t that amazing?! That you heal others simply by being yourself. And yes, much love and hugs to you too dear friend. Robin
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Steven Aitchison Says:
9 June 2010 at 10:00 am.
Dearest Robin, I can’t begin to tell you how proud I am of you. To see you grow and help others grow has been an amazing experience. I know New York city is a better place now that your energy has gently touched it and calmed it down just a little.
Congratulations and a huge hug from Scotland.
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 10th, 2010 at 1:24 am
Oh Steven, you are such a dear. I had to read your comment here a few times to really let the beauty and power of it sink into me, to claim the full truth of it. It is very profound. When you say: “…your energy has gently touched it and calmed it down just a little.” It hit me that we ALL are capable of doing this. We often think we are just “one” who cannot possibly make a difference, but that is not true. It is our simple loving acts of kindness, reassurance, compassion and love that literally change the world one person at a time. We SO underestimate this power of change. Or we think it only applies to those we already know and love, but it has much a deeper and farther reaching potential than we have yet to realize. Thank you my precious friend for reminding me of this. So, in light of that, I let your words sink in and claim them. Thank you SO much. Hugging you right back dear Steven. Robin
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John Rocheleau -- Zen-Moments Says:
9 June 2010 at 11:39 am.
And so the journey begins
That’s exactly how I thought you would handle being in New York City. The core, humanity is good and beautiful. And when we connect at that level, a door opens in those we are connecting to. I find that most people happily walk through that door.
Whether we commune with nature or humanity, we are still immersed in the essence of life. What a wonderful new chapter to your life this is.
Best,
John
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 10th, 2010 at 8:45 am
Dear John, you honor me greatly in that you thought I would handle NYC this way. It forever blows my mind how people like you who are so intuitive and wise can see me before I see myself. You have done this on many occasions. It always makes me marvel over how you survived school and western culture growing up. And not survived it but remain totally in awareness of your AWARENESS! LOL! I love that about you!!
I agree with you about the core of humanity. Believe it or not, it is blogging that has taught/shown me that, more than anything else. Well, being in the rainforest far away from humans I oddly saw for the first time how marvelous and good humanity really is. But it was blogging that made me aware of how MANY good people there are in the world. Thank you dear John. I always love looking at the world and myself through your wise eyes. Hugs, Robin
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Nea@Self Improvement Saga Says:
9 June 2010 at 11:48 am.
I’m so glad to hear that you found some enjoyment in the big city. I’ve never been to NY for the exact reasons that you described in the beginning of this post. Big city, bright lights, fast pace… sounds exhausting to me. Nonetheless, beautiful Robin made it a great experience. I’m sure you touched the lives of a few New Yorkers more than you’ll ever know.
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 10th, 2010 at 10:16 am
Dearest Nea, it’s an honor to see you here. I can so relate to how you feel about the “big city”, I am the same. It sure stretched my comfort zone and although not a place I would choose to live or even visit, it was certainly a growth experience. I think from this first time I would better know how to handle it next time. Or better said, I would more “actively” handle it. This time it was just intuitive to reach out, and it wasn’t until later that I REALLY saw how that reaching out eased the stress of being in such an incomprehensibly big city. Hugs to you beautiful soul. Robin
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Steve-Prospering With Aspergers Says:
9 June 2010 at 1:02 pm.
I haven’t been to New York since I was 4 years old. I went to a Yankees game with my Dad and uncle, and that’s where I tasted beer for the first time: dowsed on my from a couple of fans a few rows up. It cured me of my taste for beer for a long time While it sounds very diverse and exciting, I also prefer a little slower lifestyle
Robin, did you feel that the weekend went well in terms of getting word of your book out?
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 12th, 2010 at 9:22 am
Dear Steve, I had to to chuckle because 4 yrs old is also the last time I was in NYC. My Dad was vice president of the national Jaycees and my mom, sister and I went with him to a HUGE parade they put on. I remember vividly the parade and various events that happened that day and that is all, aside from all the cars and people. I grew up in small town Maine and so it was quite a shock for me then. Yes, I too like a slow simple lifestyle.
As to my book, things went really well. I have no idea how many books I signed but it was a lot. I lost track after the first 1 and got lost in talking with people and hearing their heartfelt stories. So many good people. And I’ve since had several phone calls in regard to the book. I am blessed in one regard, in that I am one who’s feet are very much on the ground. So something like my book coming out doesn’t change who I am (in terms of how I feel). My priorities are still compassion, loving humanity, my family, friends, nature and living a simple life. I am deeply grateful for that Steve. I’ve no doubt that you understand this, as you are a VERY grounded and sincere person. It radiates from you and all you do. I am also grateful for that, as you are grounding for all who come into your circle. The world needs that right now. Hugs to you my friend. Robin
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Lisa Marie Says:
9 June 2010 at 6:48 pm.
Dear Robin,
It’s great to hear that you’re back, and that you are feeling enriched by such a challenging experience. I echo the readers who appreciated how you let your love for others lead the way through the city.
And though I wondered about your comfort level in the man-made metropolis, I had a hunch the distance from “home” might even strengthen your bond with Her
Also Robin, I’m sooo psyched to hear that you have a dream of a husband!
love, Lisa
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 12th, 2010 at 9:31 am
Dear Lisa Marie, Thank you for your kind and deeply wise words. Also for your TOTALLY WISE insight about “the distance from “home” strengthening my bond with Her”, that is SO right on!!! That is exactly what happened. The next day when my sweetheart took for the picnic in the woods, I was soooooooooo grateful for where I live, for every tree, rock, plant, trickle of stream, song of bird, breath of relatively clean air, grateful that I could look out my window and see living plants and hear birds singing and see clear blue sky. Oh dear Lisa Marie, I am so blessed. And then my heart went out with compassion to people who live in big cities and may want to move, but are unable to due to age, health, low income, etc. I felt a great respect for them because many really have so much courage, as well as really make the best of what they DO have.
And yes, my husband is a dream, one of those truly compassionate, caring souls, who never judges anyone or says a bad word about anyone and really deeply cares about others. In the true sense of the word, he is a “great” man.
Thank you my dear sweet thoughtful Lisa Marie; you always touch my heart deeply. Much love, Robin
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Wilma Ham Says:
9 June 2010 at 7:19 pm.
Dearest Robin. Welcome back. Being in this world but not of it, you make it mean what it means.
You look beyond appearances, you see the eternal soul beyond the facade of the body and the clothes and thus the soul meets the soul. Your eyes see what there really is to see, your ears hear what there really is to hear, your soul connects to soul and thus you are safe and home wherever you go and made the others come home too.
That is the value of people like you, many a times I have said, you create an image for us to follow, may we also see and hear one day like you. Your book will also guide me home.
A very big hug my friend, xox Wilma
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 12th, 2010 at 10:30 am
Oh Wilma my dear dear friend!!! This is SUCH a beautifully written comment. I love how you get right to the heart of what is going on, and what is important in life. I love this line: “…you make it mean what it means.” That is a seemingly simply phrase, which is not simple at all, but in fact vastly profound!! I LOVE it.
And this line just blew me away: “Your eyes see what there really is to see, your ears hear what there really is to hear, your soul connects to soul and thus you are safe and home wherever you go and made the others come home too.” This one is soooooooo beautiful and wise that I am going to put it on my wall. It is a powerful reminder to focus on what “REALLY IS”. It invites us to look “beyond” all the crap and the things we “think” are Life, but really only are a facade or illusion. Yes, they may be at times a necessary illusion or a useful illusion, BUT nonetheless they ARE an illusion. And there really is a core essence of who we are and why we are here. To SEE that and then communicate directly with it wherever we go or are, then we are always “home”.
My word you are brilliant. What you wrote here strengthens me and helps me claim more of who I am and what works for me. It will make me much stronger next time, and something that I just did intuitively I will now do more consciously. It is very healing to see myself through your eyes. Dearest Wilma, I truly believe that you and I are guiding each other home. How AMAZING is that!!! Very! Thank you from my heart dear Wilma. I am so blessed to have your love and friendship. Love, Robin
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Lauren Says:
9 June 2010 at 7:37 pm.
Dear Robin,
Robin, why am I not surprised that you brought YOU to NYC and did what you do – uplift and love others!
I loved hearing your stories and was delighted to hear people brought you gifts – and of course, they would!
We, I, adore you Robin.
Welcome home!
Hugs and tons of love flowing your way,
Lauren
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 12th, 2010 at 10:59 am
Dearest Lauren!! You are SUCH a gift! I just love your “full-on” energy. Thank you SO much for daring to be who you REALLY are. It makes a world of difference for me and others who are very open and wanting to connect and love. Just in being you, you give people permission to open right up and live “full-on” as well. One senses no reserve in you, nothing but wide open windows and doors letting lots and lots of light, fresh air and love. I just LOVE that about you EVERY single time I read anything you’ve written.
Have you connected with Wilma Ham, the woman who commented right before you? She is at: http://www.wilmasblog.com/ You both remind me a bit of each other in that you love so openly and reach out to others without reserve and share much of your own life path, which is so potent as it really helps others see you as human and REAL! We get to reflect on our own lives more viscerally.
Also my book will be out Sept 1 and I will do a post about it. I may stand on my rooftop and shout it to the world. LOL!! I am touched and honored at the thought of you reading it. The parts of your life that you have shared on your site are so gutsy and real. I just really relate to who you are and who you are CHOOSING to be. It is truly breathtaking. Thank you for including me in your circle. I am sooooo blessed. Hugs and much love to you, Robin
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Lauren Reply:
June 14th, 2010 at 3:14 pm
Dearest Robin,
It makes my heart sing to hear such beautiful words from a beautiful soul.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I adore you and your uplifting spirit. You are an uplifter to the core of your being.
I’m going to check out Wilma’s blog. Thanks for the suggestion.
And I can’t wait to purchase your book and be inspired even more!
Tons of love and hugs coming your way, Robin,
Lauren
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Lauren Says:
9 June 2010 at 7:45 pm.
Dear Robin,
I’m looking on your site and would like to purchase your book. Is it available?
Hugs,
Lauren
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Amit Sodha - The Power Of Choice Says:
10 June 2010 at 10:39 am.
LOL @ the argentine woman with the opposite fear to yours! Sounds like it was sure an experience for you but it’s wonderful you were there doing your book signing. It sounds a lot like london but there are times, when I can be in the hustle and bustle and still see an incredible peace within people.
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 12th, 2010 at 11:08 am
Heeeey Amit my friend! How are you? Yes, I too later laughed over the Argentine woman and myself. How odd that I get in a van and she tells me this story, right at a time that I needed to hear it. It was wonderful how we formed an instant bond. Although we each feared the opposite thing, our fear was the same. We both laughed over that and said we could hardly comprehend the others fear. LOL!!! Life is amazing isn’t it. There was a time I could never imagine anyone fearing the woods, or too many trees, or being in place without huge buildings and lots and lots of stores. LOL! Now I can comprehend that. And yes, I have known people who found peace in the most unlikely places. Beautiful, huh?!! Hugs to you dear Amit. Thank you for stopping in. You are always appreciated!! Robin
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Stacey Says:
10 June 2010 at 1:59 pm.
Robin!
As always you are so close in my thoughts, but the last couple days as we near NY I have been wondering how your adventure there went! What an experience. We will soon be to a couple view points along the AT at which we can see NYC, such an interesting concept to be able to peer over the trees and look at the massive buildings. It has always felt a world away growing up on the west coast, and now we are so close to it. I will not get to (or chose not to) immerse myself in the experience that is NYC this trip, but being so close to it I can almost feel some of its energy reaching out to me.
It sounds like you had the perfect connections while you were there to help remind you that everything really is how we experience it, and we can feel/see so many different perspectives on each place we go. I love the lady that you met that had the opposite fear, what a perfect balance of perspectives the universe provided!
I am glad you are now home, sharing your comfortable space with your sweetheart!
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 13th, 2010 at 3:06 pm
Dearest Stacey, I think of you every day. So many times I look at the clock or watch (which I NEVER do otherwise) and I think it’s 7:30 PM here so it’s 9:30 PM there. “They must just be settled in for the evening and it’s going dark there now. I wonder what Stacey is seeing, feeling and thinking.” I often wonder if you are seeing the sunrise or sunset. And I wonder if you are dry or wet or the black flies or mosquitoes are biting or how you are feeling as you walk.
I have thought everyday about you reaching the view points where you can see NYC, and I’m not sure why but it makes me cry. I feel you with all that wildness and innocence still clinging to you, part of you, and then you peeking out at the world of man through the trees, just like I used to peek out at the world from my rainforest world (like a wild animal) and watch the goings on of humans and feel so removed from them and it all. In those moments I knew in my soul what the deer, wallabies, bears, wolves, and other wild creatures feel when they peer out from the trees, curious, smelling the life of humans, knowing (in most cases) that it is not a safe place for them, as they silently retreat back into the trees. I picture you a bit like that. The wildness still clinging to you like a the scent of pine and damp earth.
I am moved to tears by the beauty of your soul. It’s as if you speak things on my own heart.
I am with you dear sweet friend. I am still walking with you in spirit. Always. Much love, Robin
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Robb Says:
11 June 2010 at 1:35 am.
Kia ora Wild Sister,
It seems to me that just as in the Wild, that in the very heart and soul of human kind you put your finger on the pulse of what should matter there as well. The kindness, the rhythms, the music of Life. Well done. I hope you get back to those windy wild hills soon. Kia kaha.
Aroha,
Robb
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 13th, 2010 at 3:10 pm
Dearest Wild Brother, It was challenging, but yes, I did instinctively focus on what would keep my soul intact, and for that I am grateful. I am learning how to “be” in the world no matter where I am. It is not an easy lesson for me, but one that is making me grow, one that fills me with more compassion. But I am always most grateful to return to my wild windy mesas, slot canyons and mountain peaks. Always. Thank you my brother. Aroha always, Your Wild Sister.
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mike foster Says:
12 June 2010 at 12:46 am.
Hey Robin, sounds like you had an amazing experience in the big apple. i have been to nyc many times and i am always taken in by the grandeur of the place, the sounds and visuals, the scents and sensations. I am so pleased with your success with your book, but mostly with your ability to adapt to any situation by using your mental and spiritual strengths that make you what and who you are.
peace,
mike
livelife365
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 13th, 2010 at 3:14 pm
Dearest Mike. I have wanted to drop you a note and tell you how MUCH your comment on my last post meant to me. I was STUNNED by it, moved by it and grateful that you shared it. Thank you so so much. You confirmed for me more than you know (well you probably DO know), you confirmed all the things that I sensed in you, the things that make you rich in life experience and wisdom. It is the “Mike’s Story” that I hunger to hear. It is the story that will help so many others and change lives. I thought a lot about your comment over the days. It was a HUGE gift, one I am deeply grateful for. Thank you my good friend. You are more blessing than you probably know. Hugs, Robin
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Tess The Bold Life Says:
12 June 2010 at 5:01 pm.
Hi Robin,
What an exciting time. Every person you touched with your heart.. you were brought to NYC for that moment in time. I can see a tiny trail of powerful but small red hearts on the ground that were left in your footprints.
Thanks for sharing your experience with us. It gives each of us and opportunity to spread the love when ever we travel. I’ve been in Atlanta, CA and am in MI as I write this. I know what you mean about tipping people when they least expect it. You can see the light in their eyes…it says “You made me feel important.”
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 13th, 2010 at 3:30 pm
Dear beautiful Tess, I just love seeing my experience through your eyes. What you shared here is not only wise, but also beautifully poetic and profound. I just LOVE this line as it slammed into me in a really profound way: “…you were brought to NYC for that moment in time.” Wow! That just made me look so much more deeply at all the interactions we have, it made me claim more of my experience. I also loved the little red hearts on the ground. That is SO lovely. It also made me think how we all choose to leave or not leave little red hearts in our footsteps. I will not forget your words and next time (or even today) I will honor even MORE fully each interaction for the moment in time that it is. Beautiful dear tell. Much love, Robin
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soulMerlin Says:
13 June 2010 at 7:38 am.
Hi Robin and welcome back. I really look forward to the release date. I tried to find out how to buy one…and I’ll be sure to buy it when it is released.
New York is so friendly – I remember being amazed at how open NY’ers are. I’ve stayed in Times Square and rehearsed a company nearby…The sheer friendliness of the people ‘almost’ made me forget the suffocating earth underneath the concrete.
xhenry
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 13th, 2010 at 3:38 pm
Oh!! My dear old friend, and I don’t mean old in age, as we are much the same in that area. I mean my old friend of several years ago. What a heartwarming joy to see you here. As to my book it will be released Sept 2010 and I will do a post about it and with links to all the places you can buy it. I will be thrilled to have you read it. I think you will DEEPLY appreciate my relationship to the rainforest trees in this story. I know you, too, have a great love of the old trees. They speak to you and listen to you as well.
I also was touched by your story of being in NYC. As I read about your experience it hit me that, YES, New Yorkers were VERY friendly people. I could ask total strangers for directions and they didn’t even bat an eyelash.
Thank you my dear friend for stopping in. I will let you know when the book is out. It’s been an interesting journey, one that has invited me to do much growing.
I think of you often. Hope you are taking care of yourself. Hugs to you always, Robin xox
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Chris Edgar Says:
13 June 2010 at 8:07 am.
I’m so glad you got to have that experience, Robin — I doubt you would have voluntarily chosen to explore the urban jungle like that if it hadn’t been for the whole published author thing! Being from NYC myself originally, I know that the experiences you can have there are as wild and unpredictable as what you can get in any rainforest!
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 14th, 2010 at 5:32 pm
Hey my dear friend!! So good to see you here Chris. I think you raise a really good point. I sensed that if I’d been there longer- – that NYC is such a wild place with SO many people from all over the world — that one could have totally life-altering experiences there just like they could in the rainforest. I think one would constantly run into the “never-before-experienced”. Although I’ve been in other major cities, mostly passing through, there was something that was uniquely New York. Something I’d not seen anywhere else, and although I’ve tried to put my finger on it several times, I’ve not yet been able to. As I think about it — and I know this may sound odd — it seemed a friendlier city than any I’d been in before. Contrary to what I’d always heard, the taxi and van drivers, the pedestrians and hotel staff were all quite relaxed. I did not encounter one rude taxi driver. Where some other cities where I’ve ridden in taxis the drivers cussed the whole time. LOL!! I bet you have some WILD stories of NYC if you lived there for any length of time. Thank you for stopping by Chris and for sharing here. It means a lot to me. Hugs, Robin
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Evita Says:
16 June 2010 at 8:51 am.
Hi Robin
Oh my, what an adventure indeed. As you explained what you felt in the city, my soul resonated immediately. It is incredible to be immersed in the oneness of nature, and then see life like that. It is shocking. I have already started to feel, even before I moved out here, that it was like watching beings from another planet.
I recently read somewhere that it is as if there were two types of humans being formed on this planet currently. Two distinctly different species seem to be emerging. Thinking back to what I see in big cities, I can see the point completely. There are those of us who are turning more and more inward, natural and one. And there are those who continue chasing the illusions, and being driven by fear, greed and separateness.
Anyway, what you did with your healing day was a perfect idea!
And I love the people you met – oh I can only imagine the beautiful mark you left on their hearts, as they had the chance to interact with your rich spirit.
I am so HAPPY FOR YOU that everything went so well. I remember a year ago or so talking to you about reviewing your book (more like sharing it with more people) – and it is great to know that the time has finally come
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Robin Easton Reply:
June 8th, 2010 at 4:27 pm
Dear sweet Jay, What a moving and heartfelt sharing. I am just blown away. First of all it is an honor to see you here. And second I just LOVE that you immediately understood the point of this post. WOW!! You have given me a huge gift today. Bless you, Jay. This is not the first time that you have touched my heart in this way. I am deeply grateful. Hugs, Robin PS: Love the song! I am going to see if there is an old video of it on YouTube.
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